Live Your Own Life
Notes on What I’ve Learned
We Need Alleys
Alleys are valuable because they're in-between and out of the way, but still easy to access. They're not the beautiful, aesthetic part of a building — the glorious facade or cozy living space — but they're close by, adjacent to loading docks and kitchens and the other utilitarian spaces that are necessary to life.
Explore Your Strengths
Your strengths are your toolbox. Here’s how to find out what they are and apply them.
The How and Why of Values
Values are a way of knowing yourself better by naming what’s important to you. When you have a solid idea of who you are, it grounds you. You become more confident and less reactive to the ideas and opinions of other people. People who know themselves are comfortable and pleasant to be around.
How to Really Rest
It’s pretty common knowledge by now that sleep is important, and that we should make an effort to get the right amount of quality sleep.
Sleep’s little sister, rest, doesn’t get so much attention.
But rest is important, too. Getting enough good rest can make your days and evenings, help prevent burnout, and reduce mistakes and accidents.
Four Ways to Extend Your Brain
There's more to your mind than just the grey stuff inside your skull. In fact, your mind is a complicated system that includes and relies on all kinds of external resources. These resources help with every aspect of cognition: remembering, focusing, analyzing, and more.
Five Strategies That Might Be Just What You Need
Sometimes it takes a profound shift in mindset for someone to make a change in their work or life. An epiphany, a whole new perspective, maybe even hitting rock bottom.
And sometimes, it just takes a new trick.
The Body, The Brain, & What I Learned Last Week
Over the course of the last week, I attended nine seminars and workshops at the International Coach Federation Toronto Chapter's annual conference. I learned about the brain, the body, and myself.
How to be a Slacker
With flexibility in your schedule, you'll have time to think, learn, and make changes. You'll also have time to respond to a crisis or opportunity.
Not my circus, not my monkey
I was tired and stressed and felt bad all the time, because it turns out you can't actually take responsibility for everybody's feelings. And the reason why is that you can't control how other people feel.
Stuff I Don’t Believe: Notes from a skeptical coach
Coaching is adjacent to the world of self-help and personal development, and that world is full of woo. There are pages to be written about why that is, but not today. For now, I want to tell you what I don't believe in.
Go As Far As You Can See
I used to hate not knowing how things would turn out. I never started things unless I could clearly see the whole arc of the journey.